OSS, they changed the laws last June, and now we are able to find out... but you're right, with Tiny we could only find out if we paid for elective.
I didn't find out with Boog. I did with Moose. We didn't with Tiny... and now this one I sort of want to know. And Tim wants to know. I just don't know! I know I can bond with babe no matter what, I and with this being #6, we don't need to buy anything (except maybe a few more diapers if Tiny doesn't train by October, which I will buy second hand off friends and could care less about pattern or colour).
Tim has already asked that he be allowed to find out. Then he won't tell me if I don't want to know. Which is carp, because the man keeps secrets about as well as my dog holds his farts in. So either we both find out, or no one...
Leaning towards finding out this time, for my own curiosity and to be able to say "baby brother" or "baby sister" to Tiny, who doesn't quite grasp the concept of a baby in there at all!
Need to update a ticker, Silas Anthony Jordon born Oct 11, 2013. 6th baby, so much love!