Topic: At home iui veterans?

Are any of you who have done successful at home IUIs willing to share your tips and tricks? I’m currently trying to find a midwife to do the insem but haven’t had any luck finding one so far, and I’m planning to do an IUI at home if I can’t find a midwife. My mom has agreed to help, and has a bit of medical training, but she’s apprehensive about performing the procedure. I have speculu, sterile saline, sterile draping, sterile cotton swabs, sterile tomcat catheter.. is there anything else we’ll need? Any tips for the actual procedure?

C.R. - My sweet boy - Born 12/10/2005 - Passed 07/21/2008

01/2014 - ICI at home - BFN
05/2018 -