Topic: How long did you wait to TTC again?
So assuming a m/c is complete, HcG is zero, how long would you wait before making another attempt? The ob GYN yesterday said she recommends three normal periods first. That feels so, so long... Yet because we have to do donor egg IVF overseas I don't want to waste our next chance, either.
As a side note, while all the doctors and nurses and ultrasound techs and so on have been really nice through this loss, I don't think they really understand. I got a lot of well-meaning "what's meant to be will be" and "this probably wasn't the healthy baby you want" and "there's always next time" and even "I've been through it too, I know." But they don't know, because it's not like DP and I can go home, have a bunch of sex, and get pregnant again. Not even like we can buy some more swimmers and do ICIs or IUIs. Oh no. I have to go through weeks of injections and then fly halfway around the world for a donor egg, and pay around $10K for another chance to roll the dice. I know I'm probably being unfairly bitter here... Pain isn't a competition... But it just feels so damn unfair.
Anyway. I'm just trying to figure out if there's any chance we might be able to take another try in march or April... That's the only way we'd still get a 2015 baby.