Topic: I had a loss at 10 weeks and its was likely partial molar
I get the results tomorrow. I have been waiting to say anything till I knew but Im swamped all week with stuff to get done so I may not come back to post. I had a super healthy baby it looks like but a very odd growth covering my cervix. I was really tired, out of breathe to where I was gasping and I could barely walk or stand long which is really off for me since I never had that with any pregnancies. I kept having alot of contractions and i had a cyst rupture ... I had a bleed on the ultrasound and after 5 weeks in bed, I felt like hell.
I started feeling crappy one day, I was already spotting but had a heartbeat going for 3 weeks and then realized I had contractions all day. by night I woke moaning and instead of stopping it with meds or magnesium, I let it happen. I delivered the baby at 4am, placenta at 5am and baby looks 13 weeks.
3 days later I got sick, shakes and dizzy and bled heavily till next day, and then passed a huge amount of bubbly coned tissue size of my hand. it was covering my cervix and growing down into it from the looks of how its formed. I have never grown extra tissue with any of my losses...
I got a horrid on call dr, who would not look at anything, test anything or even say sorry for your loss. I just got yelled at for refusing a d&c. I left. called around to new dr and got it tested and everything
I will try again. I do know now my thyroid was an issue with all my losses last yr. but likely not the cause this time since baby is big and fully formed but just had all this extra odd tissue that looks molar. my hcg was 5000 already last Thursday so I should be ok to try again as long as it s down to 0 and no tissue inside.
Im pissed and also happy to not have a medical issue on my hands for the next 7 months. I was scared the whole pregnancy that I would die and with a molar its very unsafe and usually you have to terminate
my donor is now gone so I have been trying to decide w such a small selection. not easy. but all I want is a healthy baby and a healthy me carrying the baby.