Re: Facebook group

Annie, for the record I didn't feel any of that. I completely understand your fears about not wanting people in your life to know about this journey just yet. I initially was nervous about using my real name too.

I think transparency is important to keep the group safe. But they're also trying to prevent spammers, etc.

102 (edited by New-mama? 2017-04-22 06:01:26)

Re: Facebook group

annie.murph wrote:

i (disquietedsoul) went ahead and left the group. didnt mean to stir up a hornets' nest. i apologize for doing so, and for inadvertently making members feel insecure, unsafe, uncomfortable, triggered, etc etc.

i started an anon facebook acct months ago as a way to diary my journey and to pull in positive support online without having to worry about facebook's historically shifting stance on privacy and use of member info. i'll move on. best to everyone at every stage of this long journey.


Anne this wasn't directed specifically towards you. The group is growing and we don't want it to get out of control. For a while we have had members who join but aren't active. We can understand wanting privacy that is why the group is secret. Many of us have only let very close family members know what we are ttc. You probably know that there an increasing amount of spam/fake accounts/scams we don't want our page clogged up with it. As far as I know your membership was safe. You let us know what was going on. I made a specific mention of it so that it doesn't become a habit/the norm. We made the group knowing we are more visable to everyone. It allows us to easily share pictures. It can be easier to see and communicate with each other since a lot of people have Facebook app. My Facebook account is set so only friends and family can see my account (not that I post much), so others are very limited to what they can see.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

annie.murph wrote:

i (disquietedsoul) went ahead and left the group. didnt mean to stir up a hornets' nest. i apologize for doing so, and for inadvertently making members feel insecure, unsafe, uncomfortable, triggered, etc etc.

i started an anon facebook acct months ago as a way to diary my journey and to pull in positive support online without having to worry about facebook's historically shifting stance on privacy and use of member info. i'll move on. best to everyone at every stage of this long journey.

I'm sorry you had to leave. I have no idea what happened but I apologize for the group of the issue was not properly addressed.
Best of luck with your TTC journey and I'm deeply sorry for the lips of your son.

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TTC since March 2015: 5 ICIs & 5 IUIs -all BFN
July 2016- IVF w/BC/Lupron/Gonal-f/Ovidrel - converted to IUI-  BFN
Sept 2016-IVF w/BC/Lupron/Gonal-f/Ovidrel- Two 3d ET- BFP @ 9dp3dt,  Beta#1: 209 @ 12dp3dt, #2: 782 @ 15dp3dt - EDD 6/3/17 - It's a Boy!

Re: Facebook group

The timing, new-mama, is what suggested to me that others were at least uncomfortable. I did not mean to cause that, and it seemed best to move on.

Thank you for reaching out Future. It did sting a bit that those with concern didn't just come to me directly, but I know that's hard too.

The blessing from this is that i've stumbled on a local group of moms who have lost children. They are at varying stages of still trying again to raising kids. I'm going to try it. Might be good to have someone to talk to or meet with in real life during my next tww.

Re: Facebook group

annie.murph wrote:

The timing, new-mama, is what suggested to me that others were at least uncomfortable. I did not mean to cause that, and it seemed best to move on.

Thank you for reaching out Future. It did sting a bit that those with concern didn't just come to me directly, but I know that's hard too.

The blessing from this is that i've stumbled on a local group of moms who have lost children. They are at varying stages of still trying again to raising kids. I'm going to try it. Might be good to have someone to talk to or meet with in real life during my next tww.

I'm sorry about the timing it was another issue that prompted the change. Feel free to rejoin at any time. Let us know if you want us to resend an invit. If you prefer not to advertise your email address a private message works as well. Just let us know in case it goes to junk folder. Myself and Future are the admins for the page.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

I must have totally missed something. I am sorry that there is anyone who does not feel "safe" in our FB group.

SMBC: TTC since 12/2014: 3 home attempts: 2 BFN & 1 chemical. 3 medicated Dr assisted IUI's: 2 BFN & 1 BFP (04/24/15) with twins in May (new donor) MC with D&C @ 9w. 4th IUI 09/17/15: BFN. 10/15: hsg good. 11/15: BFN. 01/16: BFN. 05/16: Embryos arrested. IVF failed 06/16: KD BFN 07/16: KD BFN 09/16: IUI #7 with donor sperm BFP-MC at 9w w/ D&C. 02/17: diagnosed with hetero compound MTHFR & clotting mutation. 03/09/17 IUI #8: chemical pregnancy. IUI #9: 04/19/17 BFN LOOKING FOR EMBRYO'S TO ADOPT

Re: Facebook group

Could you please add me to the Facebook group.My email is Agemmi4ever@gmail.com Thank you!

Re: Facebook group

i would love to join my3heavenlyangels@gmail.com Thank You

109 (edited by New-mama? 2017-05-14 08:08:00)

Re: Facebook group

I have sent out new invites today. If you haven't received an invite and still want to join please comment. To clean up our group I also removed all of the invites sent over a month ago and not accepted. Happy to resend though. They sometimes show as sent on our end but don't arrive to the invitee.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

I would like to be added Kelley.reid@gmail.com

TTC #1: BFP Cycle #11 IVF (2014)
TTC #2: IVF April 2017
             BFP: FET Due February 2018

Re: Facebook group

Kellymel I sent the invite.  Let me know if it doesn't go through

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

I'd like to be added, syoung0204@gmail.com

Thank you!

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Re: Facebook group

syoung0204 I sent the invite

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

Mj724 sent you an invite

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

New-mama? I sent you a PM with my email to join the group as well! Thanks

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Re: Facebook group

New-mama? wrote:

syoung0204 I sent the invite

Was I suppose to get an email invite or will it be through facebook? I didn't see anything, might have missed it if it came through email. Sorry to ask you to send again, but can you?

thank you!

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Re: Facebook group

I sent a reminder invite. If you don't get them I will cancel initial and resend invite. I believe it does both. To your emails and to your Facebook account.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

New-mama? wrote:

I sent a reminder invite. If you don't get them I will cancel initial and resend invite. I believe it does both. To your emails and to your Facebook account.

Nothing from Facebook...maybe it has to do with privacy settings?

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Re: Facebook group

syoung0204  I sent another invite. This email is the one for you Facebook account correct?  If it doesn't go through pm your Facebook name and I'll search for you and add as a friend see if it makes a difference.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

hello i havent recieved  an invite yet  my3heavenlyangels@gmail.com

Re: Facebook group

I would be interested but my fb linked email is VERY identifying of my job so I dont want to post it here. Any ideas?

Jenn, mom to THREE amazing little boys
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Re: Facebook group

momma-jenn wrote:

I would be interested but my fb linked email is VERY identifying of my job so I dont want to post it here. Any ideas?

  Send me a private message. FutureSmbc or myself are the only ones that can finalize your invite. That way it isn't visible to everyone but I can still use it to send the invite.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

my3heavenlyangels wrote:

hello i havent recieved  an invite yet  my3heavenlyangels@gmail.com

I am sending a private message

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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http://global.thebump.com/tickers/tt1d86de

Re: Facebook group

Frozenrose517@aol.com please!

Re: Facebook group

Cloudyblue72 wrote:

Frozenrose517@aol.com please!

I sent you a private message

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

New-mama? wrote:
Cloudyblue72 wrote:

Frozenrose517@aol.com please!

I sent you a private message


I think I answered it? I'm not sure if it went through...

127 (edited by New-mama? 2017-05-29 17:12:11)

Re: Facebook group

We have three pending invites to the group: Cloudyblue72, momma-Jenn, syoung.
Have they shown up on your end? 
Am I missing anyone else?



My3heavenlyangels, did my message go through?

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

New-mama? wrote:

We have three pending invites to the group: Cloudyblue72, momma-Jenn, syoung.
Have they shown up on your end? 
Am I missing anyone else?

Still not seeing it anywhere sad

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Re: Facebook group

syoung0204 wrote:
New-mama? wrote:

We have three pending invites to the group: Cloudyblue72, momma-Jenn, syoung.
Have they shown up on your end? 
Am I missing anyone else?

Still not seeing it anywhere sad

Try sending me a pm with your Facebook account I'll see if I can find you that way.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

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Re: Facebook group

syoung0204 wrote:
New-mama? wrote:

We have three pending invites to the group: Cloudyblue72, momma-Jenn, syoung.
Have they shown up on your end? 
Am I missing anyone else?

Still not seeing it anywhere sad

I think I found you on Facebook but wanted to confirm it was your account before sending an invite. I sent a Facebook message and one through NW. Did you get either?

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

I sent an email with my address smile smile

Re: Facebook group

Bumping this...because someone was asking about it in the Pregnancy and Babies section. (it was on page 2 due to all the SPAM posted last night.)

My baby BOY is coming! I can't wait!
5/2015-BFN     6/2015-Chemical    8/2015-BFN     10/2015-BFN      12/2015-BFP (miscarriage)
2/2016-BFN     4/2016-BFN     7/2016-BFN     10/2016-BFN       11/2016-BFN     12/2016-BFN     3/2017-BFP!!!
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Re: Facebook group

trueblue1207 wrote:

I sent an email with my address smile smile

I haven't received the email. Who did you send the email to

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

I would love to join the group! Lbaker@alumni.flagler.edu

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Re: Facebook group

Lbaker wrote:

I would love to join the group! Lbaker@alumni.flagler.edu


Invite sent

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

Maybe I did not send it. Oops. I will re send

New-mama? wrote:
trueblue1207 wrote:

I sent an email with my address smile smile

I haven't received the email. Who did you send the email to

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Re: Facebook group

I would love to be added as well! My email is grasseater1394@aol.com

Re: Facebook group

I need to send the invites from my iPad. Doesn't let me through my phone. I will send out invites by tomorrow.

Once added if you could please and a short intro if new to the forum.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

Will do smile Thanks in advance

New-mama? wrote:

I need to send the invites from my iPad. Doesn't let me through my phone. I will send out invites by tomorrow.

Once added if you could please and a short intro if new to the forum.

Re: Facebook group

Cloudyblue72 wrote:

Frozenrose517@aol.com please!

I sent out an invite 3 wks ago and sent a reminder today. Did you get them?

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

momma-jenn wrote:

I would be interested but my fb linked email is VERY identifying of my job so I dont want to post it here. Any ideas?


I sent the invite 3 wks ago as well as a reminder today. Let me know if they didn't go through

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

Ladies I sent 3 new invites and 2 reminders for our group.  Let me know if they didn't go through. Please remember it is the email associated with your established Facebook account.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

Can you please add me to the group? I'd love to be around people who know what I'm going through. We are not telling anyone at all that we are soon going to be TTC. Neoangel06@hotmail.com

Re: Facebook group

neoangel06 wrote:

Can you please add me to the group? I'd love to be around people who know what I'm going through. We are not telling anyone at all that we are soon going to be TTC. Neoangel06@hotmail.com

Invit sent there are two posts one where you can write an intro and the pinned post where you will post what your NW name is so we can connect them. Welcome to our group

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

I would love to be added. My email is alcd39@umkc.edu. Thanks!

Re: Facebook group

Alcd I sent an invite.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

Hello! Can I please be added?
nomdeplume92@gmail.com

SMBC TTC Journey 2017

Re: Facebook group

Ladies sorry for the delay I sent out invites today please write a short intro about yourself and the pinned post is an area for you to to write in your nw name so we can connect your name to a face.

TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
May 2017 IUI BFP!!!! 
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Re: Facebook group

kaymillx3@hotmail.com